Sunday, July 16, 2023

Oxford New Jersey

 July 14, 2023

On our way from Ocean City, New Jersey to Allentown PA for our Allegiant flight home we stopped by Oxford to see my grandparent's old home and their graves.  I hadn't been back to Oxford in forty-four years. 

A pleasant drive up the Garden State Parkway carried us north. Traffic really picked up as we approached the New York City area turning into bumper to bumper driving on I278 with lots of trucks for company. We turned onto Rt 31 from I78 for a lazy drive on a road shaded by lots of trees - green is the color of New Jersey out here.  After stopping in Washington for a late breakfast, we crossed over Oxford Mountain to 82 Church St, the old home of my grandparents. I was disappointed to find the house in such run-down condition. The screen porch where my grandfather like to sit was missing its screen. The house needs paint and the roof needs to be replaced. Many more trees shaded the backyard than I remembered. 



I remember the wall being much taller but then I was much shorter in 1952. Of course the railroad tracks across the street that I rail-walked with my grandmother in the fifties are long gone. The tracks ran up the mine that closed in the mid sixties.

We drove around the block and snapped a photo of the Presbyterian Church located behind the old house. When we were little, my grandmother encouraged my brother and me to ring the church's bells one weekday morning just for fun.  

Google Maps shows "Oxford Group of Mines" located on the right side of  Mine Hill Road but all we saw were thick woods all along the road. Actually, the mines are just some holes in the ground in the woods so there wasn't anything to see, from the car anyway.



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Hillside Cemetery is just a short drive away along Jonestown Road. The graves of my grandparents and Uncle Lawrence lie near the unpaved road that runs alongside the cemetery.


The American Legion added the flags and probably cleaned Laurence's grave marker (not shown). He served in the navy during World War II. 

We followed rural roads passing by small farms and well-appointed hillside homes and lots and lots of trees on our way to the Lehigh Airport. This part of New Jersey is so beautiful and tranquil, I wish we had more time to just explore the backroads. 

I forgot to mention - we enjoyed a late breakfast at the Washington Diner on our way to Oxford. 


Stopping By Oxford


Post Script - My grandfather worked for the Allan Wood Steel Company for fifty+ years starting at age thirteen. He transferred from Philadelphia to Oxford in the Depression to assume the position of office manager for the mine. See the AllenWood Steel Story written in 1959 for a description of the mine.  The company folded in the sixties. 


    

Ocean City New Jersey

Sunrise July 11, 5:40 AM  Ocean City New Jersey - Richard took these lovely photos on the first day we arrived for a Family Vacation at the famous Jersey Shore!  I, Joanne, hadn't been here in many years - maybe 50 years since my daughter, Michele, was a young child.  When we were teens, our Grandmother took us to Ocean Grove near Asbury Park and then we graduated to trips to Seaside Heights.  Oh, such great memories!  I actually saw Mick Jagger of Rolling Stones fame at the Asbury Park Convention Center when he first broke out onto the rock scene.




Pictured below is us enjoying the Ocean City Boardwalk, from L to R is Addie, Michele, me, Claire, Lucy in the wagon with Frankie pulling her.  It was such a joy to spend time with the 3 little girls - Frankie, Lucy and Lana.  They never failed to keep us entertained!





Richard and I took a ride on the Ferris Wheel which provided us great views of the ocean and rides.  The highlight was the bumper cars when all 15 of us bumped away to the challenge.  Fun, fun, fun...



Out on the Water in a little power boat rented by my brother, Paul.  Little Lana (almost 3) was fearless.  Here she is looking for dolphins.

Coast Guard Requires Proper Lookout at All times

Largest Osprey Nest I Have Ever Seen



I loved spending time with my daughter, Michele, pictured above.

Later in the week, Richard and I drove down the Parkway a few exits and toured the famous Cape May Lighthouse.  It was a joy to look for our previous neighbor's B & B, which we spotted near the ocean road.  The beautiful restored old timey homes were so pretty.



Here I am with my sibs - from L to R,  - -  Paul, Mary, Claire and me.  What a treat to get together with our families and get on our "NJ Vibe."  We found a bakery and were able to recreate our childhood memories of eating sticky honeybuns, jelly donuts, crumb cake and the like!  And we had Jersey corn and tomatoes.  Oh boy, it was a good food fest!



Thanks to my sister-in-law, Diane for renting her summer family home and to Claire for finding another close-by place for the overflow visitors.  Thanks to sisters Mary and Claire for shopping and cooking wonderful dinners and to Diane for her contributions of delicious corn bread, salads, etc.  With everyone pitching in, they were able to serve 15 of us effortlessly!


Saturday, July 1, 2023

Summer 23


It is summer time here in Punta Gorda and the living is easy. And HOT!

Time is best spent inside in the air conditioning in the heat of the day. Richard worked from 6:30 AM to 7:45 AM a number of days to refinish the front door at the end of session soaked in sweat. By 8 AM the heat will drain all the water right out of a person.  He also waxed the boat the same way, just a little work early each morning.  

Nevertheless, we did find a few thing to do.

Blind Pass Beach

June 7 - We loaded our umbrellas, beach chairs, cooler and wagon in the car for a morning at Blind Pass Beach. The water was warm and clear.  An on-shore breeze made for a pleasant day. We left well before noon as the day really began to heat-up. 



Ava Maria

June 16 -  We had never been to Ava Maria, the Catholic enclave northeast of Naples and a few miles south of Immokalee basically in the middle of nowhere.  A magnificent church lies at the center of the village surrounded first by attractive small businesses  and then by subdivisions and golf courses.

We met the president of Ava Maria University while searching for the Mother Teresa Museum located in one of the university buildings.  Click to read about the impressive Mother Teresa Project.

Ava Mari Village



Church Centered in the Village



The Museum 

Cruise to Captiva

June 22 - 23 - We led a cruise to Captiva, the first time we've been there since Hurricane Ian did so much destruction last September.  The island is on the mend and we had a great time with another crew of the boat named J&J motored by Jackie Engle and Jim Pase, members of our wonderful PGIslander Boat Club.  We had a delicious dinner with them at Captiva Yacht Club, which was newly renovated and their Chef prepared us an absolutely yummy meal.  We went for a swim in the Tween Waters Pool, next door, and an early morning dip in the ocean, located across the street.  What a fun weekend!  We lucked out with great weather and no thunderstorms!  Awesome time!

Pictures below of our boats and the beautiful Captiva Yacht Club.





Sunrise from Captiva Island Yacht Club - Morning Has Broken!


Dinner at 88 Keys - A few Islanders gathered for dinner at the Wyvern Hotel's  88 Keys Restaurant June 21. We enjoyed conversing with everyone and checking out the mid-week summer specials.

Monthly Game Night with the PGIslander Boat Club has been resurrected recently.  We learned a new card game and I won!  Lots of fun at the Linehan's home. 

Mary and Al Visit -   My sister, Mary, and brother-in-law, Al, came down for a few days visit to see our 102-1/2 year old Mom.  We had a great time going to Blind Pass Beach on Manasota Key.  We also took a trip down Memory Lane to Pine Island.  The highlight was lunch at Captain Con's.  We all enjoyed the coconut shrimp and grouper along with the homemade pies.  The coconut cream was delicious!

We have been beating the heat by reading indoors.  A few of the books we read worth mentioning are  Swan Light, Lessons in Chemistry and The World Played Chess

This year Fisherman's Village hosted the fireworks on the Fourth. After a dinner of pulled pork sandwiches and potato salad and several games of Chicken Foot Dominoes with Rob and Sue we drove down to an empty lot on Jamaica Way to watch the fireworks. We were the only ones on the lot while across from the yacht club, people packed themselves in. 


   
We attended a wonderful IYC Luau Party in July.






Saturday, May 27, 2023

Annie's Medical School Graduation

 How exciting to have another female doctor in our family!  We couldn't miss watching my amazing niece, Annie, receive her medical degree; therefore, we flew up to Pittsburgh last Friday.  Cousin Dave Hickton invited us to stay with him and we were delighted to accept his invite.  Most of his family happened to be traveling, therefore, we had him all to ourselves.  We caught up on family news, and met Hawk, his fabulous retriever dog.  On Saturday, the day before the event, Dave made us a yummy brunch.  In the afternoon, Paul & Diane picked us up for a trip to Pittsburgh's National Aviary.  We had a super time meeting up with the graduate, her boyfriend, Julio, friends and Diane's sister and brother-in-law.  The birds were fascinating, too!  Check out the pictures below.

National Aviary 


  




Urban Garden




Graduation Ceremony 






By evening, Mary & Al arrived and we set out for a nice family casual dinner at the Urban Garden. We all "clowned" around with some funny props for the pictures.  Next morning was graduation time and we headed off to the University of Pittsburgh.  It was in a beautiful historic building.  We enjoyed the speeches and seeing her diverse class of graduates who have high ambitions in their medical careers.  It was inspiring to hear from some of the speakers that it was not enough for them to sit on their laurels.  Medicine and science are under attack in some segments of America.  The graduates were asked to pay attention and speak out for education, science and medicine.  Hurrah!

We celebrated afterwards at a unique venue, the Church Brew Works, were we had a wonderful meal with drinks and much deserved praise of our graduate, Annie McDermott, M.D.  I, Joanne, decided to gift Annie with a family keepsake, a gold cross that was given to her great great grandmother, on her 50th Wedding Anniversary.  I wrote up the entire story and my sister, Mary, asked me to read it.  It felt good to give Annie a piece of our Family History for her medical journey

(To hear the presentation, click on Joanne Presents Cross to Annie )

We were so happy to share this moment with Annie and wish her well in her medical career.


Tuesday, May 23, 2023

Remembering our Adorable Cat, Bleu Kitty

 




It's hard to believe our dear blue-gray Persian boy is gone!  He was 12 years, 2 months old and he brought nothing but joy to our lives.  The tears are flowing and our home is so empty without him.

How to describe this great cat?  

After doing our research, we adopted him in October 2011 from Disaronno-Persians in Bradenton, Florida when he was 7 months old. (His birthday was 3/25/11).  We'll never forget meeting him for the first time.  The breeder opened the door and he came prancing out to meet us.  He never knew a stranger; he was so friendly to us and all he met along the way.  He was the runt of the litter and the breeder thought he would be full grown at  5 lbs.  She was incorrect.  He grew to normal size, 9 lbs. and his distinguishing characteristic was his curly tail.  We think his atypical tail is why he was adopted out as a pet, not a show animal.  His coloring was beautiful.  He had blue gray fur on this head and body with a fetching white mussel with a white underbelly and white boots.  His eyes were alert and a sparkling amber color.  Oh, he was a gorgeous little guy!



Bleu had personality plus!  In the 12 years of his life, he was full of fun antics.  When he was a "child" cat, he jumped from couch to chair making a full circle over my sister's lap before he settled down.  He would routinely get "the zoomies" and race back in forth by us particularly when we were eating in the kitchen.  He loved people to watch him eat.  He would look up from his dish at you to make sure you were admiring his fine appetite.  He woke Richard up every morning at 6 AM sharp by standing on this chest or laying by his side.  He purred beautifully while I read the paper.  He was our companion cat. He watched tv with me and laid down next to me.  He loved to sniff flowers and plants and chew them.  We had to move the plants from his favorite haunt, our lanai, to make sure he wouldn't consume anything that would cause digestive distress.


Speaking of our lanai, that was where he patrolled up an down looking at the water in our canals, birds, squirrels, bunnies or whatever he could observe.  He would crouch like a hunter when something good was within his sight.  Oh, it was fun to watch him make his moves.  His favorite lanai activity was catching geckos.  He caught quite a few in his time on earth and was proud of his hunting skills.

Surprisingly, he made a terrific "boat" cat.  He sailed to the Bahamas on our boat, Eagles Wings, and truly "went with the flow" of whatever we were doing.  He never got sick from rocking around in rough waters.  As soon as the boat settled down, he was ready to eat and would let us know it was time to feed him.  One time after a long passage, we left a hatch open on the boat.  A fellow boater alerted us that he saw our cat heading down the dock.  We thought this was impossible!  We knew Bleu was on the boat.  But, "no" he had crawled through the hatch, jumped off the boat between the dock and water and went exploring.  We and others led a merry chase of him and fortunately, he tired of this game and came back to us.  We were very careful after that - we knew he loved to explore and check out new environments.  He learned to walk on a leach in the marina and always attracted a crowd of admirers.  He loved to meet little dogs and sniffed them.  We were always amazed with his fearless attitude and love to people and other animals.




As Bleu grew older, when he saw us preparing our boat from the lanai, he hollered at us, letting us know that he wanted to board the boat and partake of any adventure we were going on. 


We traveled a lot seeing many countries of the world and having foreign visitors stay with us as part of an organization called Friendship Force.  Bleu made friends with whoever stayed with us and we can attest that especially the Russian and Japanese visitors loved him dearly.  He had wonderful cat sitters who stayed with him either at our home or he would go to theirs.  We so appreciate Becky, Angela, Christel, Stephanie & Larry, and the Cat Cottage for taking such good care of him throughout the years.  Bleu also loved little children.  When he first met my niece's 2 yr old daughter, Francesca, he was enthralled with her.  Later, he even traveled under our seat to visit her in Connecticut on a plane flight.  When he was in the airport terminal, people asked to see him and took pictures of him. 


Bleu ready for a night on the town.  Bleu did not like taking a bath!

Christmas was always happy with Bleu.  He loved sitting under the lights of the Christmas tree and rarely bothering any of the ornaments.  He know they were part of the decorations and he respected that.  He loved older people and had a special relationship with my Mom, who is now 102 years old.  He visited South Port Square and brought joy to many of the residents there.  He seemed to sense when someone was sick and knew to sit next to them and purr.  Recently, he visited my Mother at the Assisted Care Facility and upon seeing her, jumped into her chair to sit next to her.  My mother loved that!


It was devastating to us when Bleu got sick.  The vet tried hard to figure it out and decided he had lymphoma.  They gave him prednisone for 3 months which gave him a new "lease on life."  He was back to his old cheerful self, pain free.  However, the drug only lasted a short time.  Bleu went down fast.  In the previous article, we tell about what we went through saying goodbye to him.  He did enjoy his last cruise, at least in the beginning, but by the 3rd day, it was time to take him home.  We realized he was suffering when he could not eat and drink.  We took him to the vet and he was put down with me (Joanne) holding him and Richard petting him.  


We have a big hole in our hearts and our home is so empty.  Today we buried him in our backyard near the lanai he loved and we placed a stone with his name on it.  We said prayers and a goodbye.  We will never forget this special little cat who brought such joy to our lives.  We hope to see him again in the next world. He is sweetness and light.  Rest in peace, dear little one, our Bleu Kitty.